How To Have A Healthy Relationship

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It could be stressful at times when you don’t have the chance to say what is in your mind; though it’s making the relationship peaceful it’s not healthy. Having a healthy relationship is essential, it actually has to be everyone’s goal, but sometimes things have to fall differently for us to identify the things that should be changed. Listed below are few of the things that you should take note in order to have a healthy relationship.

 

Identification

For us to be better partners; we should first identify the things that we like and what we don’t like. We have to list the things that make us happy before we go on with what our partners want. We learn to love others because we know how to love ourselves; we become a better person because we know what we want and we understand our partner as well.

In a relationship, communication is something that we should keep open. Discuss with your partner the things that you don’t like and things that make you happy; on the other hand, ask your partner the things that he doesn’t like and things that make him happy, from that both of you could become a better partner willing to keep the relationship strong and healthy.

 

No Secrets

When you are hiding something, it adds to the things that you are keeping on your mind. It doesn’t only affect you as a person but it also reflects on how you are as a partner; to have a healthy relationship you should not hide anything, be as transparent as you can be.

Be open to your loved one and see to  it that you are approachable as a partner so that everything could be discuss easily. Make it appoint that you give time to listen, so that you’ll gain the same thing in return.

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Admit Your Mistakes

There is no braver act than admitting your mistakes, learn how to accept your flaws and apologize for it. If you have done something wrong to hurt your partner, ask for a sincere forgiveness for the things that you have done and promise not to commit the same mistakes again; but don’t just promise, prove it.

 

Be True to Your Words

Don’t promise things if you intend to break it; you are not only breaking the trust of your partner but also you are portraying an image that you are not to be trusted. Before you say things, think ahead and make sure that you do your words as you said, sometimes when someone gets to hold too many broken promises, it stain the bond; it instills a sense that you’ll forever be untrue to your words and is undependable.

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Honesty is All You Need

Honesty is a foundation of a healthy relationship; it makes you become the best person you’ll be when you have nothing to hide.  Every relationship is based on the truthfulness of people involved; when we are honest about everything including the things that you like and you don’t like in a relationship you won’t have any problem. Some relationship fails are the fruit of not saying what you really meant, instead of making the relationship better, others tend to pretend and cover up all the issues that should’ve been resolved.

 

Don’t be Shy

Yes, you both know that you love each other; but sometimes it is better to put it in action. PDA (Public Display of Affection) is not bad as long as it is in the right way; romance in a relationship is important, it keeps the feelings burning as time pass by. So keep the love in flame and never cold by doing some romantic gestures that would surely make both of you long for each other, keeping yourself reserved and too stiff in public with your partner would sometimes signal a thought that you are not comfortable with your relationship.…

Getting Ready for a Date

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Getting ready for a date might sometimes feel like preparing yourself for your first panel presentation; you want to look good and plan what to say ahead of time. However, we can’t really control how the date would go or how it would actually end; we just need to be ready and confident about ourselves.

So before we get too excited for that big day, here are few of the things to prepare before that most awaited night to avoid untoward circumstances.

 

Get Sweaty and Feel Great

When we say feel great it doesn’t mean that you just have to think of happy thoughts; it also has something to do with being ready physically. Yes, physically active and awake; get your body to work with exercise days before that special day; you’ll eventually understand that going on a date is like getting ready in a war. Being physically fit is essential so that when you are already in that moment you’d be effortlessly ready; rejuvenated and perfect for any outfit.

 

Open the Closet

First impressions will always stick, so don’t put yourself at the bottom when you are given the time to prepare; get yourself busy on choosing the right outfit that would represent you. At this moment you are expected to be yourself, chose attire that you are comfortable with but make sure that you won’t go out of style.

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Be fashionable without looking too over prepared and consider all the possibilities  that would happen, so  think ahead of time; just for example if you are a sweaty person don’t choose garments that are light enough for your date to notice your wet underarms, believe me, you’ll never forget that date for the rest of your life. If you really have no idea of what to wear, you could get some ideas from the outfits on the magazine; if you already have something in mind try imagining yourself wearing it and ask yourself if you are comfortable in that outfit.

 

Be Mentally Ready

We can’t avoid awkward moments on a date especially when you are running out of topics, or it might be the other way where your date has a lot of topics prepared to talk about; be mentally present so if ever your date will pull out a question from the hat you’d be able to answer it fluently. Read books in advance or do some reading from the internet or newspapers; politics and other recent hot issues may be asked randomly so make time scanning and get informed so that you won’t be left tongue tied. Be intellectually prepared; you don’t know how intellectual your date would be.

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Take a Bubble Bath

When you are already ready for that date and get things all set; now it’s time to get yourself some cleaning. On the same day, take time to pamper yourself in the shower and do some exfoliating; feeling clean and fresh is a must before a date because it will give you the confidence that you need. See to it that you have everything cleaned from head to toe, do some pedicure and manicure, soak your hair in conditioner and do other skin detoxifying. It’s nice to feel clean and confident; just always keep things naturally so that you won’t look too scripted. Do away with heavy makeup or overpowering aroma; just do things calmly and natural; it’s sexier.

 

Be Optimistic

Always think positive; though the situation gives you the thrill you sometimes tend to think about what “if’s” in a date; stop and just divert your attention to the situation and be positive. The main reason that you are on a date is that you wanted to meet the person or get to know him better; so there is no reason to think negatively just be calm and be natural. Have that positive aura, it’ll radiate throughout the date.…

Easy Ways to be Romantic

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Romance keeps the flame burning and the relationship going, however, there are some who despite wanting to get romantic, doesn’t seem to know how to do so. There is no specific measurement that one could do in order to know how romantic their partners would be, we all have our own ways to express ourselves, so if you are a person who wanted to express your feelings but doesn’t know how to do it, just keep on reading. Listed below are a few romantic ways that you might want to give a try.

 

Do It Like It’s The First Time

Love gestures are common to people who have been in a relationship, these actions are ways on how to express your feelings; that may be holding their hands, kiss on the cheek or lips, hugs and cuddling. These actions sometimes become a routine, and routines could get boring.

However, it would be possible for you to make them feel special through doing sweet twists on those routines. Surprise your partner by inserting a note on their pockets before going to work or a sticky note in the fridge; they’ll be scanning those between busy hours and probably would give them a smile if they happen to read it.

Always keep things fresh and new to your partner, give long surprise kisses while you are both busy cleaning the house and doing some chores, this may lighten the stress that your partner have and may take it into another level if you are both feeling frenzy.

Complement your partner in a different level, think of new compliment and do it with a hint of sexiness.  Hug your partner and say the lines like” you know what I like about your eyes? It drives me to kiss you “, play with your words and throw a punchline worth a thousand kisses.

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Love in a New  Generation

To keep your relationship extra special, consider doing things differently.  Forget about the usual things and explore a new category of being romantic by making your partner ask for more. Give your partner something to be excited of every time you see each other because being romantic is a trait that everyone is looking for.

Cell phones is no longer a luxury but a necessity, we use this gadget to communicate with anyone we want to talk to. Romance doesn’t stop when both of you are away from each other, you can take romance at your fingertips by sending your partner some sweet or naughty messages reminding your partner that there’s something waiting for them when they get home.

With the use of modern technology, you could express your love in a more extravagant way; other couple uses digital billboard for proposal or just by letting the whole world know that you love that person. Thought it cost a lot, money is not an object when you are deeply in love.

Not an Ordinary Date

Roses, candles, and a bottle of wine on the table; a usual set up if you want to have a private dinner with your special someone.  Be more romantic than usual, you could turn the lights off and put on a dim light on dining area with a sweet music for accompaniment;  with your home cook meal and a bottle of wine that simple dinner set up will turn into a romantic dinner date in a five star hotel.  Be creatively sweet, your partner will greatly appreciate your efforts.

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Make your date as romantic as possible, take your partner to a place where they love most; like in a concert or a place where both of you love to hang out. Add a little surprise by giving them gifts or something that would remind them of that date. You could even inquire ahead of time regarding the restaurant’s surprise services or requests.…